How to Bond with Your Dog During Crisis
A novel virus. An economy in peril. Isolation. It’s not a great time to be a person, but with everyone at home, groomers shut down, and vets serving emergency calls only, it’s a heck of a time to be a dog. It’s also a time that reinforces the importance of the canine/human connection.
So, how can we make lemonade out of these lemons and use these weeks to bring ourselves even closer to our pets?
Chances are, you already feel plenty bonded to your furry friend. Still, there are a “pawful” of ways to make that bond even stronger. And these include:
Do something fun
If your dog has fun with you, they will bond with you (and vice versa). So, engaging in any activity that entertains or exercises your pooch is sure to leave them wagging their tails and licking their chops. Try a game of catch, fetch, or a walk around the block. If your dog is adept at learning tricks, you may even try agility in your backyard or basement.
Give your pet’s affection
You can tell your dog you love them, but to really get your point across, you must show them that you do. Physically connecting with a dog not only benefits them, but it benefits you too. It lowers blood pressure, heart rate, and cortisol levels (a stress hormone) in both species. And it brings us comfort in the process.
Offer treats
While too many treats aren’t ideal (especially if your ability to get outside and run with your pooch is temporarily on hold), odds are super high that your dog loves food. In fact, meat or cheese is probably its second favorite thing next to you. Giving your dog treats isn’t only a way to foster a bond but it’s also a way to perpetuate positive behavior. Milk those milk bones for all they’re worth!
Groom them
It’s not always a good idea to cut your dog’s hair. If they squirm or nip, you might end up hurting them or yourself in the process. But brushing your dog is a safe bet. Most dogs enjoy getting brushed – it not only gives them attention, but it feels good against their fur.
Set boundaries
Your dog may string dirty socks all around the house or run through the yard with your wallet in its mouth. But – believe it or not – your pooch wants boundaries. Boundaries help your dog feel safe and they teach it how to please you, which is what your dog wants most of all. Don’t forget this as you bond and make sure to take the time to train.
Bonding with your dog comes naturally, but the above tips can make an impact. As you muddle through this time of fear and uncertainty, remember that your furry friend always, always has your back.
JJ Keeler lives in Colorado with a house full of pets. She owns three dogs, two cats, and a hamster she bought as a bribe to get her daughter to ride the school bus. She has a BA in English Literature from the University of Colorado and has worked as a professional writer for fifteen years. Her clothes are perpetually covered in pet hair.
